Pulse of Chennai anonymous opinion poll
Deciding what you wear, who you meet, what you post. Love or control?
In plain English: Is it care or control when someone decides what you wear, meet, or post?
Choose between That's just care and That's control.
Narcissistic abuse. That's the word Anupama Parameswaran used, and the reason everyone started googling it. In a new interview she describes two years of it: charm first, then control over what she wore, what she posted, which films she promoted, then punishment, then apologies, then charm again. The same cycle, over and over. She never names him. She says she spoke because people with power stay silent, and the people quietly living it have nobody to recognise themselves in.
The live Chennai verdict
In Chennai, people think about what they wear and who they meet. Some feel it is just people showing they care. Others feel it is like someone trying to control them.
As per today's poll results, 81% of participants are saying “That's control”. The poll is still live and the complete split unlocks after you vote. This is one of the questions trending on Pulse of Chennai right now.
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Published 15 August 2026. Results represent Pulse of Chennai participants and are not a scientific population survey.