Pulse of Chennai anonymous opinion poll

I've had an affair for 8 months. Now over, should I tell my husband?

In plain English: Should I tell my husband about my past eight-month affair?

Choose between S, say truth, ask manippu and Never, past is past.

This poll asks whether you believe it is better to be honest about an affair or to keep the past private to move forward. You must choose between confessing and seeking forgiveness or deciding that silence is the best path for your marriage. Please share your perspective on this difficult situation. Your response is completely anonymous and we never ask for your name.

The live Chennai verdict

Many people in Chennai think a lot about how to keep their family happy. Some feel that being open is the best way to fix things. Others think that keeping quiet is better to stop more pain at home.

As per today's poll results, 100% of participants are saying “Never, past is past”. The poll is still live and the complete split unlocks after you vote. This is one of the questions trending on Pulse of Chennai right now.

Live result card: 100% currently lean Never, past is past — I've had an affair for 8 months. Now over, should I tell my husband?

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Published 11 September 2026. Results represent Pulse of Chennai participants and are not a scientific population survey.